“I never wanted kids. When I graduated high school, kids were the last thing on my mind. I wanted to go to college and make something of myself and use all my millions on myself and not have to worry about taking care of any other human being. When I started partying too hard and dropped out of college I definitely didn’t want Sunflower camera you are my sunshine shirt. I spent a few years bouncing from house to house, relationship to relationship, job to job. While all my friends were having kids young, I would always say, ‘God I’m so glad I’m not living that life.’
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>I decided to join the military so I could travel and make money, still with no intention of ever getting married or having children. My military experience was awesome. I traveled, met friends, went through more Best cat dad ever sunset shirt, found more places to live. I had convinced myself I was afraid of commitment and I would never settle down. No one like me would ever be a good mom or a good wife. I would just focus on my career. I never wanted kids.
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When I turned 26 I exited the military and began college (for the second time). I got a Unicorn hold Sunflower Back the fuck up sprinkle tits today is to the day I will shank you with my horn shirt time job at a finance firm and found my passion for financial planning. My female boss (who is one of the smartest women I’ve ever met) didn’t have kids. I would talk with her on our ‘Friday wine time’ at the end of the week and we would both agree that never having kids is just what some people choose. The other women laughed when I said this because they had kids and probably didn’t think I was serious. But I was like, ‘come on. I’m 26… I’m not married and all my friends already have kids.’ I never wanted kids.
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When I was 27 I met Dan. He was everything and nothing I ever wanted at the same time. We partied a lot and started out pretty casual. Both of us had just gotten out of some pretty serious relationships and weren’t looking to settle down Unicorn dabbing teacher besties because going crazy alone it shirt. He already had a son. I had always said this would be a deal breaker for me since my last relationship with a child’ but I decided to give it one more chance. I still didn’t want any of my own though. I never wanted kids.
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Slowly but surely, I became the happiest version of myself. Dan and I started talking about marriage and I didn’t freak out when the conversation was brought up. I could picture myself marrying this guy. I could even picture having a little boy of my own with him. His son came for the summer and I fell in love with him too. All of a sudden I wanted to live my life for other people. Dan and I got engaged after dating for almost two years. We got married six months later and it was the happiest time of my life. A month after we got married…you guessed it: I was pregnant. I was so excited. But of Flamingo people should seriously stop expectng normal from me we all know it’s shirt there were worries. After all, I never wanted kids.
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From the start, this pregnancy was less than ideal. I found out I was pregnant the morning of my grandmothers funeral… while my husband was out to sea. Then I found out my due date was while he would be out to sea and that he wouldn’t be back until the baby was 3 months old. I don’t think I’ve ever cried so hard as when I knew I was going to have to not only do 4 months of a Teenage mutant ninja turtles pizza dude’s got 30 seconds vintage shirt by myself but also birth and take care of an infant by myself.
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Once I accepted the fact that this was a one Groot I crochet but my favorite hobby is yarn ladies shirt show (with family support and long distance husband support, of course!), I got excited. I was going to be a mom! I wanted a boy and… like what seemed like everything else, I did not get what I wanted. ‘It’s a girl’ they said at my sonogram. Great… One more thing to worry about. Having a girl? Growing up in this world? It scared me. Plus, I’m a tomboy so I really wanted to have a boy to watch football and rough house with.
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Throughout my Post the last photo you took of your dog shirt I had normal complications: Swelling, carpal tunnel, fatigue… the usual. When I was close to my due date, though, I began to feel funny. I would get light headed and I was super swollen. I checked my blood pressure daily because I knew something wasn’t right. I had done so much research because if I was going to have this baby on my own, I was going to do it naturally and un-medicated… just to prove how bad-ass I was. Wrong again.
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On May 24th 2017, I went to the hospital because I thought my water broke and I was feeling funny. Turns out I just peed my pants a little (another perk of pregnancy!) but my concerns about my blood pressure were right. I had pre-Imagine Flower Hippie Peace all the people living life in place shirt. Essentially, my blood pressure was so high that staying pregnant could cause me to have a seizure any moment. Do you know the only cure for pre-eclampsia? Birth… So much for natural and un-medicated.
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Luckily my mom was with me and she and I went straight to labor and delivery so I could be induced. After 12 hours of trying to labor with no medication, I gave in. The baby had been having d-Some one with autism makes me smile every single day shirt (heart deceleration) and I was over the pain. I finally laughed and said, ‘well… this whole pregnancy has not gone as planned so might as well finish it off!’ The epidural was AMAZING. I had my baby girl 2 hours after that with no complications.
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